by Diane Holmes, Marketing-Zone: Marketing Yourself and Your Book, founder of Pitch University.
The Reality of The Dream.
DISCLAIMER: If you’re still “super excited” about your writing, and know you’ll be “one of the best-known writers in the world,” skip this post.
You’re still living the dream.
Everyone else, follow me.
When you decided to become a writer…
… exactly how many YEARS did you expect to WORK 80-HOUR WEEKS (or on your 12-day vacation, like Jake Poinier )?
… how regularly did you expect to get REJECTED?
… did you think you’d BE MAKING LESS than your first corporate job out of college?
… did you picture yourself, years later, STILL being offered a LOWER RATE than you’re worth (see Joe Wallace’s article on negotiating your rates) , or having to explain, yet again, why your writing HAS VALUE?
…did you think of your DREAM as “that lovely source of UNRELIABLE INCOME?” (as Catherine Tully says in “Don’t quit your day job.”
But the heart wants what the heart wants.
And it wants to write.
Years later, when you’re a better writer than you’ve ever been, how do you deal with the realities of your writing career?
Seriously, shoot me now.
Is it that you’re still having so much fun that the rest pales in comparison?
What do you do when the fun has flatlined? What do you do with reality when you’re burned out by it?
1) This HELPGUIDE is one of the better articles on the nature of burnout.
2) The Four Stages of Burnout.
3) Interesting definition of Workaholism vs. Work Engagement.
4) Megan Hills’ excellent blog explores Burnout. As Megan says, “Burnout is the new black.”
Diane writes two columns for Freelance-Zone: Fiction-Zone: Leaps in Fiction Mastery and Marketing-Zone:Marketing-Zone: Marketing Yourself and Your Book.
She’s the Founder and Chief Alchemist of Pitch University